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The Three-way

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Every Friday we’d gather around the counter at Pitcher and Butch and trade war stories. There was Jamo, a mechanic, ex Baraton University, Bachelor of Technology in Automotive. Boisterous, loud, carefree. He worked in a garage in Westlands as a garage manager. Loved cars, knew everything about cars. He would hear a car pass and tell you what car it was by just listening to its engine. He was my childhood friend, grew up five houses away from ours. So we go along way back, we know where all the bodies are buried. He would show up at the bar in his work boots, the ones with the steel-toes. He would be in faded jeans, smelling of oil and grease, the insides of his nails darkened by hard labour, his hands hard, his soul calcified, the paws of a bear. He could snuff out his cigarette with his thumb and index finger.

Then there was Solomon, ex-UoN. He was jobless then. He studied Law but he hated it like most people who seem to study law. He was in transition of sorts, trying to find his true north. What he knew for a fact was that he didn’t want to spend another day practicing law. Unlike us, he grew up in a rich family. They owned lots of residentials and he was the only other son. He had walked out of his last job one day after lunch, a law firm owned by one of his father’s cronies from the country club. Naturally, whilst his father was disappointed in him his mother stood by him and convinced him to get involved in the family business, which he hated because he felt like he was living his father’s dream. He refused and his father cut off his allowance. So he was broke but rich, you know what I mean? But it didn’t seem to perturb him.

Then there was Sammy, a small-bodied gentleman, a compressed ball of energy. An IT specialist, ex-India graduate, some university in Kerala or something like that. Sharp. Loved gadgets. I knew him through Jamo, they were old friends. He was a hawker, or rather, that’s what we called him because he had a briefcase IT company and he went around selling IT solutions at a time when people were learning “packages”. He was married young. We were only 26-years old and he had already been married two years prior, which meant he was more mature than us, more inwardly looking. He knew what lay ahead, we were only stumbling towards it. We didn’t care what lay ahead, because what lay before us in those Friday evening meet-ups at Pitcher and Butch was whisky, Johnnie Walker Red label, to be precise.

We would buy a bottle and split the bill. We would gather around this bottle like it was fire warming our bones and drink it until 10pm after which Sammy would be the first to leave because you know how married guys are. Always running home not to upset the apple cart. There was always someone else joining us, a friend of one of us. We were never too keen on girls joining us because that would upset our budget. A girl meant that she would order something fancy, like a cocktail going for 500 a pop and if she knocked back four we would be in funk. It’s worse if she dragged along a friend like they would mostly. It would force us to converge in the loo for a little hearing at the end of the evening and decide how we would handle this situation of the bill.

Nonetheless, those evenings were filled with mostly inane conversations, basically blowing smoke up each other’s skirt. We dreamt a lot and whenever that happened we didn’t go for the small dreams, we dreamts as big as we could. We were thick as thieves, at least on Fridays. Not only did we share the little we made on that table but we also shared the little we knew about life. And we didn’t know a hell lot. It was an odd camaraderie; at one end egged on by the bravado of youth and at the other, silently dogged by anxiety of impending “adulthood” because we really didn’t see ourselves as adults. We saw ourselves as children of the world, as men who would never age, we made excuses for our actions and we were brave and hopeful, daring to want much more than we could chew at that time.

In September 2009, I went to work one morning and received a group email summoning us in the boardroom. I was working for a snazzy men’s magazine. I should have known the South African suits filling in with their grim faces were bearing lousy news. They gave us a snappy speech as they cut the rope. They said that the recession was kicking their asses and the magazine could not be sustained. We looked at each other like, “OK, we are definitely not getting a raise, but what are these folks sayin’?” In short we were told they were pulling the plug. This gig was up. Pack your stuff and vacate the building, we shall send you your severance package. We were shocked. Nobody cried, just numbness. We groped our way to our desks, like men and women in a blizzard. Some of us went out and smoked furiously. My daughter was only a few months old. What was I going to do? My life was over!

I hurled myself against the wall hoping that it would break my neck because what good was life if you were jobless and broke? When the wall didn’t break my neck, I opened the window and looked outside at the one floor fall. That wouldn’t kill me, I thought to myself, I’d only end up breaking my ribs and now that I didn’t have insurance how could I even afford treatment? So I jumped.

OK…none of these happened. I didn’t jump or hurl myself against the wall. I was a man about it. I wasn’t going to break down but I felt like someone had pulled the rug from under my feet and taken my identity with them. Suddenly I didn’t know who I was anymore. We define ourselves with our jobs and titles and where we work so much that when it’s taken away you ask yourself, “then who the hell am I if I’m not the senior features writer?” You question your worth and contribution as a human being. You question yourself as a man, as a husband and as a father. Your self esteem shrinks. And when no answer was forthcoming I sat in my car in the office parking, a small paper bag with all my office belongings; desk photos (never keep photos of your family on your desk at work, they are not worth it!), mementos, a small cartoon clock (funny, how now I would have all the time in the world), and old magazines and I wonder what the hell I was going to do with my time now that it was only 10:03 a.m. in the morning. Maybe I would turn into those chaps who sit on benches in town or those who nap in Jivanjee gardens. You feel lost and confused and so bitter you want to go upstairs and scream in the faces of the suits, “you bloody capitalists, what am I supposed to do with these 2,000 business cards!?” then kick one in the shin and run downstairs.

So I called Jamo. He was sweating under a VW Passat, staring at its underbelly. “Can I come over and just chill?” I asked him. There was a small kibanda in their garage. “I’m sort of busy now, but you can come though I will be up and about”. So I drove to Westlands and he let me sit in his office that overlooked the whole yard (great to see who is stealing spark plugs). I didn’t want to sit with computers and printers and ringing phones, it was only reminding of a life that the office had rejected me. So I went to the kibanda downstairs and ordered tea and chapatis and people watched. I had so much time my pockets were bulging from it. I didn’t want to think about what next. I just wanted to watch mechanics unscrew nuts and spray paint and flirt with the hawker ladies selling boiled eggs.

At lunch we sat with other mechanics on the bench and I told Jamo that my job had ended. He asked what happened and I told him. He said, “Easy, man”, and that was it. No pity party. No hugs. He knocked off work early (who’s boss?) and we went to Pitcher and Butch and we ordered our usual, another bottle of Johnnie Walker Red Label and we drunk it the two of us. It was a silent statement that night; he was being the supportive friend without reading me quotes by Rupert Murdoch I was trying to forget this nightmare by postponing what lay in the road ahead. I was trying to stop time. Confusing night, that.

The next few months were filled with confusion. I didn’t know what unemployed people did when they woke up. I didn’t want to stay in the house with the Help because she was Kisii and she sang terrible Kisii songs and that was going to drive me insane. So I left and went to Amref library because it had internet and it was quiet and there everybody seemed too serious, head to opened books, looking like they were studying molecular science. I didn’t have a computer of my own and so I would just read newspapers or a book I’d carried looking. Most times I looked like a stalker.

Months passed and I still went to our drink-ups on Fridays. Somehow the boys were kinder to me, which meant the bill would not be split three-ways but I would be asked to give whatever I had. By this time, Solomon had succumbed to the pressure and was now working for daddy. Sammy was no longer selling from his briefcase but had now joined hands with another fellow and were sharing office premises. And wearing better suits. In time the meetups got less frequent and the conversations around our table was changing; there was less bravado and more introspection. The nights were getting shorter and shorter because we were now all married and were fathers, so we had some sort of subtle curfew imposed but one that we didn’t acknowledge to each other. We were still men. African men. We went home when we were ready to go home. Lions. Well, until we arrived home.

Gradually our choice of drink had also changed because the networth of the table had changed. We were now drinking Johnnie Walker Black label because we wanted to be seen in a certain light. We wanted the chaps on the next table to see our status and to respect it, damn it.

I admired Sammy. Secretly of course. God, I would die if he knew I admired him. I admired how he handled his business, how he would not know how his bills would be paid end month but somehow they got paid. He was a businessman, and he always seemed to stay afloat even during the hardest of times. He was the first person I knew who didn’t have a formal job and was staying afloat somehow. It seemed so grown up. So bad-ass. This meant that I didn’t burst a vein trying to get a job, I did it half heartedly. I was enticed by the freedom of it, but I didn’t fancy the uncertainty that it came with. I started writing my blog. I went and worked for one terrible couple in an underground art magazine for three months and then wrote a resignation letter in a plane to Mombasa.

Life started happening to us and we all started drifting towards different directions; Jamo kept making some bad decisions and he kept losing his jobs. He was that lucky bugger who always got a job a month after losing one. He briefly moved to Nakuru to work for an automobile company. His wife left him. Then came back. Solomon had now turned into those chaps who go for country music and pick nyama from the butchery to be roasted. He had ceded the cries and pleas to join the family business. I felt a little sorry for him.

Sammy separated from his wife and lived like a hermit in a studio apartment in Parklands eating take-outs from a box and sleeping on a mattress from the floor. I was trying to stay afloat in the freelance space and it was hard comprehending even what that meant on a daily. Our lives were being stirred up in a pot. We weren’t as close as we were and once in a while when Jamo was in town he would gather everybody together at Pitcher and Butch on a Thursday this time, Reggae Night and we would buy a bottle of Oban (now this is good whisky) and try and catch up. If you have been to Reggae night on Thursdays you will know that no sensible conversations can happen in that bedlam. So at the end of the end of the night we realised that we hadn’t really known what was happening in each other’s lives in details. But the idea of meeting up and laughing and knocking glasses seemed sufficient under the circumstances.

Life has been relatively kind to most of us. Our children are healthy. We are healthy and are pursuing fulfilling careers. Some of us are happily married, some not. Sammy got married again. A big garden wedding. I’m the only one who didn’t attend because I was out of town for an assignment. But I saw pictures on Whatsapp. He wore a one button suit and it stretched around his midsection because he stopped working out and now looked like someone’s father. Jamo looking like he borrowed a suit and Solomon stood legs apart like a sentry, squinting in the sun. I looked at them and thought; boys do grow into men. They all had beards. They all looked fat. And happy.

It’s been half a year since I saw Jamo. Last time I heard from him was well, yesterday. We all talk on Whatsapp frequently, sending silly forwards mostly. We all keep planning to meet up but life intrudes with its own plans. Next time we meet it will be over something very deserving because life is precious and we are still here. It will be the Green Label or our usual Oban. A drink that says “we are here now, and life is kind now and we don’t know when we will see each other again so let’s sink into this moment”. Because life flies over our heads and it flies by fast. You blink and you are a father, you blink again and you are 50-years old, talking about how expensive university fees are.

Hopefully then we will converge at Pitcher and Butch again, where it all started, and we will be able and brave enough to order Johnnie Walker Blue Label without feeling dizzy, without asking for the price and thinking how much that translates in bags of cement. And Jamo will knock it’s underside with his flat palm and crack it open because he has always been the guy who opened the bottles. “You can’t open a bottle of Johnnie Blue like that, boss”, someone will say, “the spirit of Johnnie Blue demands a little more culture than that”. He pours himself a drink. Then we will pour ourselves a drink. Then someone will raise their glass for a toast and we will touch glasses and drink to life. The we will split the bill three-way.

We are not the same men we were. Nobody is. But even though we drifted apart, we somehow remain rooted loosely to each other through more children, more responsibilities, more challenges in life. We always found a way to find ourselves and gather over a bottle of something. Curiously, we never did anything else, never lunches or outdoor activities, it was always over a bottle of whisky, that we shared, like blood brothers. There is something profound about drinking together as men, and specifically drinking from one bottle. It’s a kinship and the bottle is never really a bottle but a symbolism of a commitment at friendship, a pact of sorts. And we always split the bill, three way.

Happy Whisky Day, a toast to anyone sharing a bottle of anything today.

117 Responses
  • Benson Mbocha
    18.05.2019

    He..he.. the makeup for Tuesday’s mockup nice! let me dig into it.

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    • Nix
      18.05.2019

      Aaaw… friendship goals. Always a pleasure to catch up

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  • Mary
    18.05.2019

    I’ve never clicked faster on an email notification like I did today.

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    • Aimee
      18.05.2019

      New post on a Saturday! We are truly blessed.

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      • Anthony Jasi
        18.05.2019

        Very Touching, seen my entire life as I was reading this piece, thanks so much for sharing.

        A friend of mine from Kenya shared the piece with me, bse he knows I love Whisky like crazy and also happen to own a Liquor Store. Would love to send you a bottle if you don’t mind.

        Happy #WorldWhiskhDay
        Cheers
        Anthony(With ❤️ from Kampala)

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        • Loise
          27.05.2019

          Am in Kampala.Can we share a bottle? Even if of Ruwenzori? Or Bushera 🙂

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    • Bumble Bee
      18.05.2019

      This is a very beautiful piece.

      Sharing the bottle of whiskey, knowing your brothers are always there for you, and they hear you without uttering a word, over laughter and shoulder holds, the unspoken”I will always be here” pact.

      Cheers to incredible friendships.

      We’ll drink to that 🙂

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    • kuimichelle
      18.05.2019

      Thanks for this. Now we can pretend that the Tuesday post didn’t happen.

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    • Siri Changamu
      13.06.2019

      We have a link of five. The Buddy Link. This is very relatable

  • MissAkinyi
    18.05.2019

    I thought its a scam….Kumbe Biko has posted on a cold rainy Saturday morning for real.

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    • Gate
      18.05.2019

      Beautiful…… Friendships like this demarcate the boundaries between life-changing moments and make it easier to face life.

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    • Julius
      18.05.2019

      A toast to that, happy whisky day

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  • Eddie
    18.05.2019

    Almost asked why today. But of importance is reading…

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  • Amuj Lio
    18.05.2019

    Thank you chocolate man for the make up.

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  • Joan Mundati
    18.05.2019

    You are far too kind Biko. Two articles in one week. God bless you for that.

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    • Catherine
      18.05.2019

      Whaaaat!!!! On Saturday! Day made!

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  • Wahito
    18.05.2019

    Feels like a Tuesday !

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    • Riri
      18.05.2019

      Huraaaaaa!!

      That’s how a lazy Saturday full of nothing but diaper changes is spiced up

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  • Fridah
    18.05.2019

    Just as I was reading Man Talk… Thank you Biko for keeping us entertained, moved and for the lessons hapa na pale.
    And you are awesome for celebrating Mama Risper Dande. A toast.

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  • Njira
    18.05.2019

    Why is the bill split three-way? Also, this is a treat, to read Biko on a cloudy Saturday morning

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    • bikozulu
      18.05.2019

      One guy ( won’t mention who) was not doing well financially. So we always went three way.

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      • Waithera
        18.05.2019

        Oohh, was wondering too, thank you for explaining (and for the article too☺️)

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      • Auma
        18.05.2019

        And that, ladies and gentlemen, is friendship.

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      • Mushie
        18.05.2019

        I was just here wondering …Is the person writing the story in the story? What does three way mean? Am I that bad at counting ?…hehe
        Thanks for explaining and cheers to great friendships.

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      • BABAYAO
        20.05.2019

        Eyyy yawa very nice !!!!!!

      • Jaxonkin
        21.05.2019

        In fact I thought I had missed something and went back to again read the last three paragraphs because I was wondering why split three ways yet there are four of you. I hope the tables turn right side up for him. This is a wonderful piece Biko.
        “There is something profound about drinking together as men, and specifically drinking from one bottle. It’s a kinship and the bottle is never really a bottle but a symbolism of a commitment at friendship, a pact of sorts.” … Profound!

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      • Gitau
        21.05.2019

        Yet some people in fact a majority keep saying that men friendships are fake. Thanks for showing us men in good light.

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      • Kiddo
        22.05.2019

        Was about to ask what the personas name was, amongst the three, just before you clarified this.

  • Jenni
    18.05.2019

    Where old friends meet!
    I had a meet up with childhood friends last weekend and it was a blast!
    Here’s to friendship.

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    • P K
      18.05.2019

      Hivi tuseme kuja wale husoma because of free wifi at kobo. Watajua Monday kulikuwa na makeup.
      Of importance is laifu (with a coastarian accent)

  • Moses
    18.05.2019

    I was curiously waiting for the conclusion … ‘It’s a kinship and the bottle is never really a bottle but a symbolism of a commitment at friendship, a pact of sorts’

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  • MkD
    18.05.2019

    I need to work on my friendships….

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    • Ruthie
      19.05.2019

      We all do. I figured that this lifetime things arent things we force on people. They just happen on their own and you realize halfway that this is real and deep. And this people have your back.

  • Wanjiku
    18.05.2019

    Wow biko on a Saturday we are spoilt

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  • Lawrence
    18.05.2019

    Hear hear!!

  • Shiko
    18.05.2019

    Pwahaha i clicked on the mail so fast, i thought it was a mistake and it might disappear, felt like a treat! then half way when i realized that this is a personal piece from you Biko i first stopped did a happy dance lol it just felt good to read something that is intimate to you! and it was a nice read as always, happy whisky day to you too and your buddies.

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  • Wambua
    18.05.2019

    Reading biko Zulus article is more than a routine

    • Maheni Wa Mbogo
      19.05.2019

      ….Sure it borders an occult ritual. Something deep that I can’t afford to take lightly.. m

  • rufus njenga
    18.05.2019

    I had to look on my phone whether it was actually Saturday not Tuesday

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  • Mark
    18.05.2019

    Your writings are powerful. Everyone has a story..ups and downs. Most importantly, your writings gives one hope and strength. To know that despite the many knocks we get, we can rise up. Life is good…it’s only that we take for granted the small things until something forces us to appreciate them. Keep on writing. Your work will guide young men who try to unravel what manhood is all about.

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  • Kimeu
    18.05.2019

    It reminds me of some good old chaps n a bottle of ‘magic moments’….its not whisky but the symbolism is superb…Good times..

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  • Irene
    18.05.2019

    Is it Tuesday? Thanks Biko you just made my Saturday

    • Faith Dee
      18.05.2019

      Nothing beats a catch up with friends over a bottle of good whiskey, and yeah we always split the bill too and celebrate the growth in each others lives.

  • Dan
    18.05.2019

    Still trying to figure out how the bill was split three way by four people.

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    • Lewis Ndungi
      18.05.2019

      I think Sammy would leave at 10 p.m. before the bill was split.

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    • Waithera
      18.05.2019

      Biko has explained in a comment up there

  • Njoki
    18.05.2019

    So there’s Solo, Sammy, Jamo and Biko…why three ways? Or should I work on my grammar some more?

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  • Marinda
    18.05.2019

    What a beautiful unexpected piece on a forlorn Saturday morning.

  • Casmir
    18.05.2019

    we are here now, and life is kind now and we don’t know when we will see each other again so let’s sink into this moment”. Because life flies over our heads and it flies by fast. Thats deep

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    • Janet
      19.05.2019

      Sure it does

  • Frid
    18.05.2019

    “force us to converge in the loo for a little hearing at the end of the evening and decide how we would handle this situation of the bill.”
    Problem solved ,
    Happy whisky day.

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  • C. Ndege
    18.05.2019

    There are so many lessons in this. Fulfilling piece.

  • This story has warmed my heart on this rainy Saturday morning.
    I think every re-union is a time of introspection. You meet old friends and see how far they’ve come, how far you’ve come and it’s nice in a fuzzy kind of way. The decades old friendships are precious. Those are folks who know you inside out.
    For some new friendships, you just keep walking…like Johnnie Walker. They ain’t worth the time or the trust and life is too short, so you cut yourself loose and keep walking.

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  • Philip Bittok
    18.05.2019

    What a surprise. Nice

    • Metobo Kisn
      18.05.2019

      Big up Biko,
      And Cheers to Lewis, Joyce & Oronje.. My round-the-bottle cronies

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  • ndugu abisai
    18.05.2019

    All my life now.A bit of it.The sun shines.

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  • Mariah
    18.05.2019

    Happy Vodka day..the weather says it all..Great weekend…

  • Sue Ellen
    18.05.2019

    ”…we are here now, so let’s sink into this moment”…Loved it

  • Lizzie
    18.05.2019

    Wow! U’ve made my sato. Cheers

  • Meg
    18.05.2019

    Thanks, Biko for minding us and making it up. Great piece.
    We do invest our emotions into these stories and it doesn’t feel nice when one lies. These are real-life stories from people who want to vent/advise/inspire/teach. If we need fictitious stories Biko will announce. Respect everyone.

  • Doki
    18.05.2019

    Day made, nothing beats the wintry drizzle after a night shift like a story from you Biko. Thank you

  • Ben
    18.05.2019

    Thank you Biko for this bottle you shared, a story.

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    • Charles
      18.05.2019

      Why do you keep saying “split the bill three-way”. There is Jamo, Sammy, Solomon and, of course, Chocolate Man; that’s four. You need to tell us who doesn’t pay their share.

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      • Chero
        21.05.2019

        No he doesn’t. But Biko has explained that one of them wasn’t doing well financially.

  • Charles
    18.05.2019

    Why do you keep saying “split the bill three-way”. There is Jamo, Sammy, Solomon and, of course, Chocolate Man; that’s four. You need to tell us who doesn’t pay their share.

  • Mary
    18.05.2019

    Beautiful writing always,We all crave connections,friendships and old ties that tell the journey this life has been. Good whisky is always good for worthy re-unions

  • Smart Triumph
    18.05.2019

    Jamo

  • Winnie
    18.05.2019

    Something to read as my hair dries….

  • Ngwili
    18.05.2019

    We define ourselves with our jobs and titles and where we work so much that when it’s taken away you ask yourself, “then who the hell am I if I’m not the senior features writer?”

    The above is so true, its time we stopped putting our titles on our business cards and approaching it differently. Create your own identity which will be everywhere.

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  • Smart Triumph
    18.05.2019

    Explained by Biko, scroll upwards.

  • Ingweress
    18.05.2019

    At some point in a squad, there is always one guy not doing well financially and that shit rotates.
    Nice read Biko

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  • collins odhiambo
    18.05.2019

    “Friendship is everything. Friendship is more than talent. It is more than the government. It is almost the equal of family.- Don Corleone” Biko you guys have grown to be a family and as relationship experts will tell us, any friendship that stretches past seven years when guys are still together is disqualified to be called friendship but family. Come on a toast on my bill to your new family.

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  • Patsy Mugabi
    18.05.2019

    Because friendship is #amillion little things and whisky happens to be a part of it.

    You had me at this part, “We define ourselves with our jobs and titles and where we work so much that when it’s taken away you ask yourself, “then who the hell am I if I’m not the senior features writer?” You question your worth and contribution as a human being. You question yourself as a man, as a husband, and as a father. Your self-esteem shrinks. ”
    Goes back to doing some intros[ection.

  • Kennedy
    18.05.2019

    Biko just out of curiosity,have you registered for Huduma number?
    Anyway thanks for confusing my week, I had to reconfirm today is a rainy Saturday not Biko Tuesday

  • Ken Kago
    18.05.2019

    Seeing the alert., I thought what a pleasant surprise! A treat on a Saturday, it can’t get any better than this, the weekend is surely made. However, upon reading………………….what? All for Johnny Walker Red or Black Label or Oban? Surely, Biko, kuwa serious! But I enjoyed the reminiscing. And I have learnt that I can visit Amref Library, which I suspect is well stocked with serious resources and material to aid research. Please tell that access is not too difficult!
    Life does happen but it seems that in spite of everything, life is good, huh? If you had broken your neck by hurling yourself against the wall or jumped the one floor and broken your ribs, you still would have lived to tell……….but nothing or no situation is permanent, a friend of mine loves to say! The only thing I find exasperating about life though is that it is too daily!!! Goodness, you just can’t take a break from life, even one day.

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  • Kadonye
    18.05.2019

    What did we do to deserve this?!! Yay. Biggest fear, wake up one day & an entire decade has passed and I’m in a rut. Feel like its the sammys of this world that get ahead. Those not scared to get married, have babies, start businesses in their 20s…

  • Wachuka
    18.05.2019

    And the bill was always split three ways even though there were four of them, true friendship and holding each other up. Big up Biko a treat this was

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  • Caleen
    18.05.2019

    Here’s to lasting friendship! A shoulder to lean on!!!

    • P K
      18.05.2019

      Hivi tuseme kuna wale husoma because of free wifi at jobo. Watajua Monday kulikuwa na makeup Sato .
      Of importance is laifu (with a coastarian accent)

       

  • Flozzie Kadjs
    18.05.2019

    Tuesday comes early in May. Thanks Biko!

  • Kabora
    18.05.2019

    A piece on a Saturday!!! So does that mean I shall be denied my Tuesday dose of Bikozulu? Let hope you don’t ruin my Tuesday lunch ritual lol. I really enjoyed this piece. There is something about sharing a bottle of whiskey with your boys and having that feeling of belonging. Happy Whiskey day people

  • Jerono
    18.05.2019

    The three musketeers

  • Sheero
    18.05.2019

    Thanks for the treat, Biko!

  • Shix
    18.05.2019

    Why split the bill three ways when there were 4 of you?

  • Trixie
    19.05.2019

    Good read!! Thought provoking. Love how guys deal with issues. “Easy man!” No pity party.

    But ….why 3 ways and I count four 🙂

  • Angela Darcy
    19.05.2019

    I could meet with you Biko and we can change the tune to some bubbles… Maybe Moet.. Am shouting. Good read Biko. Missing my friend in Kenya now. I feel at home when I read your articles.

  • Scaranja
    19.05.2019

    then solemnly it sinks in………………..the same quotes by our parents are reincarnating through ours! “Son, the music playing now was our number one in our days. a Sam fan Thomas hit…..” thats what dad would say, only Elvis Presley with twisty replaced.

  • Sheeqow
    19.05.2019

    My hubby has this kinda pact. I always envy them. Thanks for a beautiful article.

  • Muthoni
    19.05.2019

    Nice piece… I like the ending..

  • Rehema Zuberi
    19.05.2019

    I don’t know why I lack such friendships it was World Whisky Day? Baffles me how many whisky lovers didn’t even have a clue of this To the four who split the bill three-way

    https://reshonlineblog.wordpress.com/2019/05/16/cry-at-home/

    • Kenyatta Ngome
      19.05.2019

      Bikozulu, when I grow up, I would like to be like you ( a sharp writer). Keep entertaining your readers. Bravo! Happy Whisky Day!

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  • Bob
    19.05.2019

    Good read this extra piece. Love the brotherhood

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    • Kasyaba Brendan
      23.05.2019

      Yes indeed timely compensation of sorts.

  • Kami
    20.05.2019

    3 way but 4 friends….hmmm, curious.

  • Dottie
    20.05.2019

    I envy male friendships. No judgings, just pure clean male “love”. Women often never last and if they do, they still haven’t discovered the “real them” (I hope I make sense).

    As always, thanks Biko for the treat.

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  • Grace Yaa
    20.05.2019

    If only ladies could have that sort of friendship.. Told someone last night how I envy the brotherhood that males have.

    Such a great read Biko!

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  • Nell
    20.05.2019

    Biko, are you the one who wrote this?

  • Caroline Karwitha
    20.05.2019

    They don’t normally last that long. Awesome and cheers to a brotherhood.

  • wanjirumk
    20.05.2019

    i am one of the watu wa kuamka Monday to free Wifi at jobo,

    Asante Biko ,
    Cheers to more Blue label………………

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  • Anataria
    20.05.2019

    Great articles, superb writing- brightens up my week 🙂

  • shirore
    20.05.2019

    Mixed emotions!..wow!..cheers to friendships

  • Charlotte Biegon
    20.05.2019

    To Friendship!

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  • NDAWA
    20.05.2019

    someday you will blink and boom you are 70 years and you will still write better pieces than than this, it will be worth celebrating,then you will call your friends,Jamo in the mix of course,and you will drink to that; as old folks. Whisky will not grow old with you,it will give you company to age.

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  • Beru
    20.05.2019

    “Because life flies over our heads and it flies by fast. You blink and you are a father, you blink again and you are 50-years old,” Massive respect Biko. Deep indeed.

    Good piece.

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  • David G
    20.05.2019

    Boss,

    Good read. I relate to this piece a lot especially when in your narrative, you mention the events we experience in life are not inevitable. Instead, people somehow find a way of overcoming their individual challenges if they have a will and talent. In addition, when you surround yourself with true friends, you always have each other’s interest at heart and more often they come to your aid when in need.

  • Wambui MR
    21.05.2019

    At this point in my life,i wish i had such friends.

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  • Eligash Mbugua
    21.05.2019

    Reminds me of Three Ways Hotel at Naivasha..If walls can tell tales.

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  • abdullah omar
    21.05.2019

    those were the days!

  • Ms. Kibe
    21.05.2019

    I need a drink that says, “we are here now and life is kind now, and we don’t know when we’ll see each other again so let’s sink into this moment”.

    Captivating.

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  • Eric Ndavi
    21.05.2019

    It reminds me of many of my Bro moments over the last many years. This rings with truth. Keep on writing this stuff, Bro. I’ll keep soaking them up like a freshly laundered bathroom towel! Can’t wait till next week.

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  • Eva
    21.05.2019

    This piece seems very familiar…I wonder where I read it before..

  • Gabrielle
    22.05.2019

    I’m sorry but this is the most vapid and dull story I have ever heard. I came to hear of Biko through a friend and thought that he sounded like someone up my alley. I’ll admit Biko has engaging language and wit but he lacks the ability to engage with his stories. His stories are like a meandering road- Interesting to look at but ultimately lead nowhere. It’s a pass for me

  • Kasyaba Brendan
    23.05.2019

    Thank you Biko. I had shelved my “watering hole” for the past half a year. It’s time I activated my presence with the guys and an occasional drunken, shitless chic on the sidelines scrooging off our bottle. Great memories there and just like in many places in Africa “you know you are getting old when you start converting your drink into cement bags”!

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  • Fatman
    23.05.2019

    Great article. “There is something profound about drinking together as men, and specifically drinking from one bottle. It’s a kinship and the bottle is never really a bottle but a symbolism of a commitment at friendship, a pact of sorts”, loved this.

  • mwachia
    06.06.2019

    wow! whisky day.

  • FANAKA
    06.06.2019

    “I think if I’ve learned anything about friendship in this article: it’s to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don’t walk away, don’t be distracted, don’t be too busy or tired, don’t take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff. in deed”

  • Maina Gakere
    11.06.2019

    Looks like I missed this post on Saturday. Indeed friendships are valuable. Some of your friends are closer to you than your relatives.

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